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Message # 10303.2 Subject: Re: reacting to trolls Date: Thu 20/05/04 15:20:08 GMT Name: AnthonyX Email: anthonyx@jowc.net |
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I've received the occasional flame email about my site. I've learned to simply ignore them, as wetjeanscowboy should have done. In my case, the latest flame was that the member's section of my site didn't have any "good" pictures. Since he never indicated what he considers "good", his complaint is meaningless, and since membership on my site is free anyway (just my way to limit bandwidth) any complaint about either the quantity or quality of what I post is irrelevant.
Even though my galleries do not contain any original work (it's all collections and contributions), it still hurts to receive criticisms because I worked hard to put my site together and my galleries reflect my personal tastes. So, I can understand how people who either invest their creative efforts in taking pictures or models who allow themselves to be seen (and judged) by web surfers everywhere can be hurt by harsh criticism - to the point of withdrawing from any further scrutiny. I have to remind myself (and any other producers/webmasters should likewise remind themselves) of the following:
There will always be trolls who will shoot their mouths off. I think most of the popular sites and models have drawn verbal attacks at some point, so you're not being singled out. If you react, they win... they have demonstrated their control over you. You just have know that you can't please everyone; have faith in yourself and know that there are people who appreciate what you do; focus on them and ignore the personal attacks.
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By darbtew - Thu 20/05/04 14:20:26 GMT I'm RATTLED!! wetjeanscowboy closed his page due to an idiot. Myself I enjoyed the pics. Like people have said before, if you don't like the pics...SHUT YOUR F**KING MOUTH!!!!! Do you see what you have done. How many other producers have to close their FREE site down due to STUPID people. Can't we just ban the Brain-deads and let the people who enjoy the sites stay. Thanks, Darbtew
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